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Our beloved Doug (soundbear69) was in for the weekend.

He ran about and did the party bear thing with kiwi59 -n- wooferstl for the better part of the weekend – but we eventually got him out to burb-land to do the hippy-hermit-bear-thing with us.

We started up the outdoor fireplace and put on an “upscale white-trash” dinner:
French Onion Soup (the Famous Barr Recipe,… of course)
Bacon Wrapped Filet Mignon (the pre-wapped and ready to go kind… of course)
Scalloped Potatoes (from a box…. of course)
Canned Green Beans (but added real bacon… of course)

Dessert? Long overdue catching up, laughs and just trying to soak up every little bit of him before he vanishes again to join some new broadway show caravan.

Save one other – there’s few who’s visits we cherish so much.

Thanks for a great night Doug – see you next time!

(*insert clever serial ending here*)

saturday with soundbear


I don’t actually know if Doug gets into watersports… it just struck me as funny.

Saturday night was the every other blue moon we go out and one of Chad’s co-worker’s birthday. Her birthday wish? Go boozin with the bears at the dark spooky man-bar.

We lucked out and ran into our old friend Doug, ( a.k.a. Soundbear ) – out who is currently in town doing the sound for Wicked.

We met Doug last century when a work gig brought him to St. Louis seasonally to run the sound at The Muny for a couple of summers.

He fell right into our, at that time mighty tight, happy hour click.

The click’s since de-rezzed… Core couples have split up… Others have become full-time nose-candy mongers…. and others…. well… they formed triads and moved out to the suburbs into mid-century modern homes to nest.

Originally a Missouri-Boy, (Kansas City), Doug relocated to NYC years ago to pursue his career in theatrical sound and “stuff”. He’s got that signature New York kurt-to-the-point-tough-guy exterior that a lot of folks would either perceive as intimidating… or rude…. but… well… It could be just us – but a hug, tickle and a smile is all it takes and the big ole scary biker guy turns into a big ole blueberry muffin. (You can take the boy outa missouri – but you can’t necessarily take the missouri outa the boy).

Though we’ve kept in touch via the net – it was great to actually “see” him again… which added to the said debauchery of Saturday night and the extremely LATE wake-up time I had on Sunday.

which… leads to this blog entry… which doesn’t exist.